Well. I don't want friends. I want intelligent sounding people. D: And it's not so much shunning, just imagining them as a 4 year old with a typewriter. Which is kind of cute so I treat them like the kids I babysit. And most people don't like that.
But, I probably am older than most people here. Don't know why I should expect wonderful writing from all the young people. My old-person crankiness rubs off on the petsites. WRITE GOOD AND STAY OFF MY LAWN. Whippersnappers.
But really, roleplaying did help my writing a lot (but I was big on the writing well thing even before I found Neopets and their roleplay board.) I first started roleplaying when I was 12. I was pretty bad at writing and spelling then (I was one of the "dose" = "does" kids, regrettably.) but I didn't chatspeak. I just never have. Never liked it either. Yeah, I don't know.