Okay, so this is my life's story. me and my sister were great sisters. We did everything together with little fights and arguements. We had only a few fights ages 1 through 5. 6 and 7 years old were a little more arguementive. By 8, we were getting into fights almost every two days. By 9, about everyday. Whether they were small or large arguements. 10 wasn't any different.
At 11, we started to go to public school. Yes, we were sick and tired of seeing each other for almost all of the time we were homeschooled, But she was still my sister. At 12, things got worse. My sister became a smart-ally and a smart-mouth. Her sharp tongue always go her into trouble. My helpings never changed anything. She was just to arrogant to let our parents control her. T.T I can't take it anymore. She has too much attitude when she doesn't get what she wants.
Today she got in a fuss because she couldn't have pizza for lunch. She chose not to eat anything for lunch. She never eats Breakfast, and she always either gets what she wants for lunch, or has nothing. It pains me to see her attitude with our mom during this time. She gets so s*censored*y and bratty. She has made my mom lose her temper one too many times. I got so frustrated with her when she lost so much, that I just told her to do what she was told, she refused. She kept saying she had nothing more to lose. I told her she had a whole life worth living and she shouldn't soil it now. She fought back against my mother. I started to cry, I hate seeing the trouble she gets in and I can't do anything. I try, but always fail.
Please help me figure out a way to help my sister out of these moods. I am sick and tired of her losing her privileges. Her life is going down the drain. She just wants to sit on the bed and do nothing about it. She doesn't want to give in to my parents. She keeps blaming them for starting the arguement. She never seems to see that good things in life and always fights against having parents. She said that when she grows up, she was going to rebel against parents!! Do you know what it is like to hear her say that?! Kids need their parents, she doesn't understand that. I need help to figure out how to help her. My mom trys and she fails as well. My dad doesn't even bother trying its so hopeless. I don't know what to do and I don't want this to happen. I keep having nightmares that she will commit suicide or run away. I am lost in words for how much I care for her, I don't want her life to end now. She has such a bright future that she seems to want to lose.
Thank you for letting me post this and thank you for taking the time to read this post. I just need to talk this out. This is just so upsetting to me. Thank you again for taking the time to read this long post.
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