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Morgain

5:14pm Apr 24 2009

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I need some guy advise.

 

My mom says I'm not old enough to date, but, see, I've been crushing on this guy named Justin for a while, but everytime I look at him, I melt and I don't have the guts to even talk to him, let alone ask him out. When I finnaly told my self I was going to ask him out anyway, I got sick for the next to days, and then we where on spring break for two weeks. LAter that day, I got a call from one of my best friends, Agana. Agana told me that our friend, Sam dumped her boyfriend Tyler and was now going out with Justin. Not only that, Sam told Justin that I liked him! (Then our friend Emma started dating Tyler, and Sam seemed perfectly okay with it!)

A few weeks later, I began to accsept the fact that I mised out. Then, out of nowhere, Sam tells me she dumped Justin. That was yesterday. Now, Justin and I are in the school play that premered yesterday and we're doing it again tonight. Well, out director changed the cutan call (when we all bow at the end) so now Justin and I are next to eachother and we have to hold hands.

 I know this sounds patetic, but I really feel bad about it. I don't want to ask him out because I'm affraid of what Sam will think. (My friend Angela then told me that she was okay with Emma datying Tyler. She has a poit.) Also, I refuse to ask him out because I don't want to be selffish and ask a guy out who's on the re-bound. (Getting over the last person they went out with.) He seems to be taking it well, but I honestly can't tell.

As if things can't get worse, he kept asking me for hugs while we where backstage yesterday. (Which is very dark, by the way...) But then in Science today, Rebecka said it was wierd because she thinks Justin likes her now because he kept asking her for hugs, too.

I don't know. I'm panicky and confused, and I don't know what to do. Someone please help me!!




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Geonightrose

5:31pm Apr 24 2009

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Start out getting to know the guy. Don't panic.  If he likes you, you'll find out.  Take it slow and easy, don't jump into something.

I don't know how old you are, but I have already told my daughter no dating until she's 16.  There's a reason for this.  Puppy love.

Puppy love is something you experience when you're young and becoming an adult.  You start looking for something, and of course you're going to gravitate towards certain types.  Control yourself a bit.  Yes, he's cute, probably seems smart and nice, but get to know the guy, especially if you've only watched from a distance beforehand.

As for the asking for hugs all the time... its kinda creepy if he didn't know you well, but not unusual.  He might just be having a hard time.




"How sad the world is when everyone holds out their hand when you have something to offer, then withdraws it when you are in need."
Morgain

5:57pm Apr 24 2009

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Thanks, Geo. I'm just kind of confused and unsure.



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KCAD

6:09pm Apr 24 2009 (last edited on 12:45pm Jun 27 2022)

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Your kinda like me cuz I was in a similar position. I liked a guy (and still do) since 5th grade. His name is Armando. I've liked him since and then I couldn't talk to him cuz he made me feel all fuzzy inside and made my heart pound. But now I talk to him. But I'm not going out with him. I talk to him and he knows that I like him already cuz I confessed to him in 6th grade (I'm in 7th now). He seems cool with it but I don't think he likes me like the way I do. But I'm fine with it. But for some reason he recently calls me 'his *****' and I don't know why. (sorry for cussing. Just wanted to make the statement clear.)



1ran

9:43pm Apr 24 2009

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You should ask him out. Get to know him first, though. If he says no, at least you don't have to suffer from not knowing what will happen.



bellagirl

10:43pm Jun 21 2010

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KCAD: he is either doing that to anoy you or to tell everyone that you are his and they can't have you



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