...that are currently recording, have a male lead singer, and are good at slow-beat.  If you want to know what I'm talking about, listen to this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjDojEOiMcE

However, I want a broader list of bands.  Can anyone think of any?  And please, if you could, leave a Youtube link for me or the name of one of the songs?

Ah, Lifehouse. Great band. If you want something like that. You should check out songs by Switchfoot. I think they're still recording. But anyways here are a few songs by them:

Your Love Is A Song

You (Don't have the click this link. Its just my favourite video XP)

Always

They have a lot more great song, but I'm too lazy to post them XP, so you can search them for yourself. Hope you enjoy XD

One of my favorite bands is Starsailor.

Though, a lot of their songs aren't very slow... in fact they somehow manage to be upbeat but somehow sorrowful at the same time.

Way To Fall

This Time

The Wallflowers in another band I like that may not fit into your category. o-o Not much of a slow beat person I guess. 

One Headlight

Sister Hazel

Your Winter

Counting Crows 

Colorblind

R.E.M.

Everybody Hurts

Cool. So are you getting these bands for your own fun? Or is it like for something.

Also, another good band is Snow Patrol:

You Could be Happy

Chasing Cars

Also The Fray has a few soft slow songs

Never say Never

Coldplay also has some softer songs

Yellow

Theres also The sc
ript but I'm to lazy to post anymore links XP