I'm not sure what you mean about the music on profiles part. Can you clarify on that a bit?
And while I get what you're saying about updates, it's not going to be feasible to post an update every time it's necessary to adjust rules for the chat. I mean just imagine for a minute lol. Updates are on our front page, the first thing you see when you log in.
Update: Users will no longer be allowed to talk about titties in the shoutbox.
Can you see how this would look to a parent or to an underage user or out of context to anyone not familiar with the shoutbox and what goes on there? Sometimes it is just necessary to adjust the rules a bit, and the best way to let you know is in the chat as it happens. It's not like our mods are super strict or anything, they just say "hey so and so please don't do such and such anymore because reasons" or something along those lines.
I really wish staff had the ability to add addendum to the chat rules page, but we don't. Even if we did, and we added stuff like this, it would eventually get so ridiculously humongous to read and be so overwhelming that hardly anyone would end up reading any of it.
It is really difficult to find a good balance that won't end up with some imperfect instances like this, unless we take away some expressive freedom and just make blanket rules pertaining to certain subjects like other sites similar to ours have done. No discussion of any body parts, underclothing of those parts, no exceptions, for example. But we don't want to be so restrictive like that, so sometimes it's just necessary to make adjustments as we go, and the best way to make you aware of those adjustments is in the chat itself. If it makes you feel bad that a mod let you know, don't. No one remembers after a few seconds, it's over and done with and we're on to the next crazy topic.
(and I think that mutants can get an OAK effect? if that's the pet you request it be put on? I'm not positive tho, xee would be the one to ask)