Meg, its the 21st century, i asked 5 guys out before.
men dont want a woman, if she seems not interested.
they are afraid of rejection. i know cause they told me.
do it meg.
just don't listin to them and do it.
trust me.
don't tell anyone, just tell them after you asked him out,
and tell them they are wrong.
then smile about it.
lol