Hi everyone... i need advise.. I like this guy and he likes me back, BUT my friend who is Bi happens to like him to AND the guy i likes does drugs. I HATE DRUGS. All my friends say that if we go out he might stop. I talked to him and told him i dont like drugs and he said he has stoped and promises to stay off of them. BUT my Bi friend keeps saying he is doing them again. Im not sure if my Bi friend is just saying that so i wont like him. Oh and the guy i like is straight. I think i still want to go out with him but he wont ask me out! can someone tell me how to get him to?

(i hope this is apropriate? Im just saying what really happened. If its not i will delete it i apologize.)

Hmmm... this is different.  I'll try to work something out for a minute here.  Hang tight there!

Maybe if he won't ask you out... it may be because he's still hiding something.  Or, you could try asking him out.  If he keeps making excuses, then he's probably hiding something.  (such as the drugs you were talking about)  These things may all be tied together some how.

Do your friend and the guy hang out together? 

If you still want him to ask you out, then act like you have nothing to do on the weekend (or any other time you both may be open) and act as if you're bored.  (be incanspicuous though)

Heck, it may work... I've never given advice to a problem like this before.  I can only *censored*ume that this may work.  (If it doesn't, then I'm sorry.)

Ugh! So to begin with there is this reeeeally hot guy across the street though he is a year older than me I like him a lot but whenever he's over to have "guy time" with my older brother my friend is there turning everything into a perverted statement and its soo embarr*censored*ing and my mom won't let me make her leave!! And if I ever get to talk to him how do I get him to ask me out with out sounding weird because after all Im the little sister...*growls*

There is this boy at my school and he (no offense to him) Is really really really fat and stalks me!! Since. 4th. Grade. I mean It's not really in your face but all innuendos and knowing smiles which I have no clue what that even is about but he won't leave me alone...

Unfortunatly Im really tall and there are no boys that are not jerks(or stalkers) that are taller than me other than older boys. I really don't want to date so much out of my grade as I don't get to see them that often...though the problem isn't getting any guy I want though...

Help?

Well, you could try saying tat you're bored and you have nothing to do on the weekend.  Then, you could randomly ask him what he's doing (just say that it's out of curiosity) and remember to be incanspicuous.

About the stalker... you should turn around one day, and ask him what he's trying to do, and why.  If it's a stupid reason, just try to tell him to leave you alone.

Well, height isn't always the thing that matters.  It's the guy who you know you like (or something like that.)  I once knew a girl who dated a guy who was shorter than she was.  She was really tall. 

(I'm kinda short compared to all the guys at my school.  they're literally a head or a head and a half taller than me)

Well jani gave me some really good advice but it was really rude and when I tried it as I have tried everything he just stalks me more!

Tall is good for volleyball so I'm not really concerned yet but when I fimished with volleyball its going to get annoying...

well... he probably knows that it annoys you.  So, it may be better if you act like he's not there.  You know, ignore him.  (at least try)  Point is, if he knows it annoys you, he may be getting a kick out oif it.  if ypu ignore him, he may get bored and stop.

i don't know what to do then... I'm sorry.

I'm sooo happy!  I think I have a boyfriend!  (kinda)

Joke thing? 

what are the people saying in the blackmailing?

Wow...

Really?  You like?  Thnx!

long conversation...@.@ thanks any way

ok.  you're welcome... 

(random question) What kinds of guys do you find kind of attractive?  I seem to like the sweet shy ones for some reason...