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Shark

4:56pm Mar 9 2012

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I broke up with my boyfriend because he was being a total complete jerk to me. He started hanging out with this guy named Austin who is a total jerk and he is really sexist and sarcastic and is offensive to all women. My boyfirned was acting like a huge butt and I was tired off being treated like a toy. He just wanted me to show me off to his friends and just liked me for my body. I'm not even pretty.


 


So that makes it even worse and stupid. He didn't truly love me. and he was sarcastic alll the time and I was just done. I was bawling my eyes out after I had a fight with my mom and he saw me with makeup alll over my face and red blotches all over from crying and wet cheeks and he walks in and he says "You look happy.." YOU LOOK HAPPY. I OBVIOUSLY AM NOT HAPPY. I started crying harder and my friend took me to the bathroom, and yeah. Sorry guys. I had to find somewhere to rant :(




Wendla

5:07am Mar 11 2012

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boys are jerks, no matter how kind they are...

boys are jerks, yet some learn to deal with it and try to become nicer

others will let themselves run loose


so... i dont even know how to end this post...

LOL!





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dory

6:19am Mar 11 2012

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After reading that, i'm SO glad you broke up with him. I hope your you don't let these emotions control you in future, but instead learn from this experience <3 :3 . Best of luck , girl!



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Graveyardfox

12:31pm Mar 11 2012

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Even if girls outnumber boys six to one on Res, there's still some active boys in the community to see that, Wendla...




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Wendla

1:00pm Mar 11 2012

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i meant in my age group...





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Graveyardfox

1:10pm Mar 11 2012

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And no one really knows what age group you're talking about. =/ I could very well be the same age as you.

My point is that you shouldn't insult or talk badly about a group of people. Judge people as individuals, not as groups because not everyone is the same.




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Wendla

1:15pm Mar 11 2012

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um... are you eleven?



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Graveyardfox

1:37pm Mar 11 2012

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No, but I was once and I wasn't a jerk then either.




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Graveyardfox

1:47pm Mar 11 2012

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Also, sorry for hijacking your thread, Katiee. ._.




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Wendla

2:30pm Mar 11 2012

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oops... sorry Katiee!



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Imaginary

6:39pm Mar 12 2012

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That's awful :(
but at least you now know he isn't right for you and aren't wasting any more time on him :)




Oh, and not all boys are jerks ;)
I was eleven once too, and if you really think that, you are overlooking a lot of boys.



YoursTruly

7:11pm Mar 13 2012

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To say all boys are jerks is to give in to the same stereotyping as 'all girls wear dresses' [doesn't own a dress] 'all boys are brave and like insects' [chief spider remover of house with three brothers] 'boys like blue, girls like pink' [little brother's favourite colour is pink] 'girls play with barbie dolls' [not sure if running over with skateboards, throwing out windows and feeding to the dog count as 'playing'] and, worst of all, the argument that one sex is more knowledgable than the other.



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Guiven

2:45pm Mar 15 2012

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Katiee, I think it's a good thing you broke up with him. You deserve someone who actually cares about you, not someone who's going to be a jerk.

Boys can be jerks, and so can girls. That doesn't mean they're always going to act the way they do. We're all human, we all make mistakes, we all say and do things we're not proud of, but that doesn't mean it's accurate to label everyone who's similar to certain people as something they might not be, especially if it's something negative.



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mothy

5:16pm Mar 15 2012

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lots of guys are just.... really awful. 6_6 there's plenty of nice ones, don't worry. but... yeah man i look around my school and anyone halfway attractive is a sexist donkey butt.
there is someone out there who's right for you, though, don't give up! :> and don't sell yourself short saying that you're not pretty. someone definitely finds you pretty, i'm sure. beauty is in the  eye of the beholder. (◡‿◡✿) 
kakelover

6:43pm Mar 21 2012

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I agree with mothy. Even if you find your "knight in shinning armor is just a idiot in tin foil." (my favorite quote. :D ) you still have hope. There is someone for you, even if you never met before, you will and he will only look at you and live just to make you happy. (at least that's what I believe)



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