How would you feel if you paid someone to train one of your creatu; not to keep, but to increase their agility... (You explained all this over rmail im vivid detail).  You paid for 2 weeks (at least 2 levels per week).  The user seems friendly and trustworthy, and they were even a respal

After the time period timed out, you rmailed the user to return your pet.

AND

They respond, stating that they sold your darling creatu for 1mil to a user who is now banned.

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Well I was angry first...but then I thought.  I suppose it was my own fault for trusting this user, and now I am more weary of who I entrust my pets with.  I am not one to hold a grudge, and am more disappointed in that person taking advantage of my trust.  I will not mention any names, for I dont want to make that user a target for insults and malicious rmails.

BUT here's another point.  That user didnt apologize and refused to return the tu that you paid in advance for the training of your pet.  Why did I pay in advance you ask?  Well, my previous respal said that they were only a mil away from buying a dye kit, and asked me to pay for the training so they could buy it before the price went up.  I agreed because I thought we were friends.

The pet was an ezahni by the way (No name of pet, for you could find out who the banned user is who has him)

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I am NOT trying to make this user seem bad and I am NOT trying to complain, I am just curious to see what other users would do/feel in my situation. 

Oh my.  I honestly dont know...

About 2mil, Sea.

I'd feel... really upset. Then, I would let them know that wasn't okay. And, shun them. ld /holds a grudge

I'd feel betrayed, mostly.

I recently had something similar happen that involved sniping, but.. it was a complete stranger. The girl joined maybe a month ago, so I'd never seen her before.

The grudge wore off after a week or two, when I realised she'll probably eventually become more mature. It happens to most of 'em - including me when I was new.

If the user was a friend though? Augh. It'd kill me. You can't just ignore a friend like you can someone you never knew.

Every time I saw them.. I'd feel so awkward. So hurt.

It'd probably result in lots of lurking on my part. Everywhere the user appeared.. would be somewhere I wouldn't want to appear.

Have them pay me back my tu + how much the pet was worth, if they didn't....ticket them with the deal of the training and all, to get my tu and pet back, to see if its possible to get both back.

Also I'd feel hurt, betrayed und very mad. x3

Thanks for your opinions, guys

Fizzy, I did shun them...they even had the nerve to re-respal me when I deleted.  It hurt me most to see that they didnt think they did anything wrong

yoshi: I'm sorry to hear of your experience, hopefully I can just forget about it.  I dont know. Hopefully let it wear off like it did for you.  And I know, thats exactly how I feel.  I saw them in the forums a few days ago and I couldnt even bring myself to say anything, and I still go on their profile with the slight hope that they were just pulling a dark prank.

allur: I dont think you can send support tickets on these matters.  And yes, those are all three emotions I feel at the moment.

 Wow...That is just...Wrong!

 I'd probably forgive them pretty easily...That's my problem, I don't stay mad at anyone for long and usually get taken advantage of because of it.8c

I think it's worth a shot asking a staffer about it, especially if you still have the rmails detailing everything that happened.

I just dont know.  Thanks for your opinions everyone.  But I would hate to bother a staff in such a way.  I mean, it was my fault for trusting the person and paying in advance.  Life goes on, you know?  So perhaps I will just try and forget about it.

 But we will see.