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7:19pm Jan 15 2010
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Hello, I am having SERIOUS friend problems and I know how it feels if you don't know what to do. If you are having any type of troubles or problem post here. I am listening. ~Sugar
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10:09pm Jan 15 2010
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OOh ooh *raises hand*! I have a problem! I inevitably trip over invisible things 0.o
Ex: Today I was walking with my friends marcos and kim, and kims all like,
Dude...I feel like I'm gonna trip.
Marcos (meh boo! I <3 him so -^.^-)is like: I almost tripped on a puddle (me and kim: wft? lmao)
Me: Oh! I tripped this morning...would'v done a paceplant if it wasnt for Carlito.. *coincidentially trips at that very moment! the culprit: NOTHING!! DX* |
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11:36pm Jan 15 2010
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Lol Dez!! XD here ish mai problemo... My friend, Alexis is tttly ditching me and twi and my friend Izzy for EVIL people....Like this one random forth grader (Idk where they met...) and I saw her today....She was where a shirt that makes her boobs look bigger D:< She ish a PERVERT!! D:< I hate her! They were sharing cherrios. So then me and Twi were trash tlaking them on IM XD lol then after school we were playing handball 'cause we were board and we used to play with Teams (like when you team up whif other people) but we haven't played like that in forever....So then Alexis would team up with whoever was in the front of the line. When the guy I like was in the front of the line, Him, me and my friend Izzy we teams and he trashed us for Alexis. D:< I cried. When I got all sad after that the guy I like came up to me and he was all like. "You Alright? What's worng Ciara?"
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1:19am Jan 16 2010
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they ditched u for a fourth grader? wow -.- lol thats the best they can do?
(guessing your in fifth-sixth gradish) Darling, at that age, NO shirt can make them boobehs bigger and trash talking only makes it worse.
Aww thats sweet that he came up to you to make sure you were ok ^^ He sounds like he cares. I say, maybe they were jking with you guys when you were playing handball
well, I never had problems in elementary school. Middle school was a little bumpy. High school is the bomb so far =D I've been thru all that tho so my suggestion (may be meaningless/useless cuz I suk at advise xp) is to ignore them and find someone else to hang with until they get over it. If they cared they wouldn't be ignoring you period. If you started it or had something to do with the argument or whatever, appologize. If they don't understand they arent worth it and your better off finding new friends (geez dat waz long!)
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1:32am Jan 16 2010
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*hugs Dez* Thank ya :D I do hang out with mai other friends,but it's really stupid 'cuase I got really close to the girl that's ditching me...then it feels like she left me like nothing. ANYWAY, enough 'bout me. I was eatin' cheese while I typed this. XD Swiss Cheese named Fred.
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1:59am Jan 16 2010 (last edited on 2:08am Jan 16 2010)
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*hugs back* oh yeah...I know that feeling (flashbacks to middle school *shivers*)
Middle school was a biatch. But my "friend" was a bigger one. She was a manipulative skank who used me to boost her popularity and then kicked me to the curb even tho I was so loyal when she got a good rep. But I hate dwelling on the past. I am not and will never be the person I was back then...I was insecure and vulnerable (still kinda vulnerable) and she scared me for the longest time. My mom ended the friendship when she found out she hooked me up with a junior (I was still in 8th grade) However, nowadays if we see each other, we can talk without any negative feelings toward each other.
Oh rly? I prefer mazzerella but swiss is goud too aww If I didnt change my cheeses name they would have been twins =[ |
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12:59pm Jan 16 2010
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Elementary school I THOUGHT at first was okay for me, then I lost my best friends because I finally got sick of one who continously killed my self esteem and left my other one in middle school because she started being a bad influence. She was always cursing and such, and didn't get over things. >.>; I remember how nearly every day she'd try to do love tests online and convince me these people that got suspended twice a week were good, honest people. o.O I mean really... Now, however, I really just talk to my one remaining friend whom I wasn't as close as I am now from elementary and a few others who I never really became friends with until middle school. Fifth grade was actually when my first best friend started being mean. :s When I stopped being friends with her, she acted like it was no big deal, which hurt me in the beginning as I actually thought I was SOMETHING to her. The best thing to do, in my opinion, is to just forget about it and remember that you changed for the better if she is starting to turn to the bad influences. I'm horrible at giving advice and I'm only a couple years older than you, but that's what I would do. Seventh grade was terrible for me, being as it was the first year of middle school, but this year, it's okay now, since I've basically accepted the fact that I'm better off without the two people who I originally thought to be the ones that would always be with me. People change, and there is no doubt you will too. I think that was more of a rant than advice. :d
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5:58pm Jan 16 2010
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thanks Pet & Dez :D *hugs both*
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8:00pm Jan 16 2010
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I mean, there are issues coming up now, but I truly believe that I have a good friend right now. One minute we're all; "YOU ALWAYS COMPLAIN." "BECAUSE THERE'S A LOT TO COMPLAIN ABOUT!" "YOU NEED TO BE MORE OPTIMISTIC." "YOU'RE TOO OPTIMISTIC!" "YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO OPTIMISTIC!" And ten seconds later, we start talking about what we saw on TV. xD
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8:12pm Jan 16 2010
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I has a problem! There's this guy, who sits right behind me in concert band, and is on my team at school. he apparently hates me, and has taken to torturing me every second of the day. Any plausible reasons for these actions?
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9:13pm Jan 16 2010
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lol pet XD Zoey, He may be pestering you 'cause he likes ya...But that's just my guess. If you have told him repeatively to stop, then I would go through your school phonebook and call his mama and tell her this "Your little boy is such a meanie punish him and send him to haides!! mwahahahahahah!" I would tell someone who has authority over him.
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9:03am Jan 17 2010 (last edited on 10:05am Jan 17 2010)
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*throws up in her mouth* That's....just.....disgusting.
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12:18pm Jan 17 2010
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Zoey: He probably just wants you to notice him and thinks that bothering you will put the spotlight on him..there was a guy like that in my history cl*censored*..lol he didn't "hate" me, but he would pick on me. Were really good friends now.
I say, just don't take it the wrong way and play along with him..what you guys have going on right now is the perfect formula to the start of a great friendship ^^
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2:37pm Jan 17 2010
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My friend did that. o_o One of my other friends got annoyed with me and called me something bad, and in my defense, my friend I told you about in my above post called his mom using our 5th grade clas-s list and said "Your son called -insert Pet's real name- gay and also threw me on the ground after school." xD He's like, my parent.
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2:05pm Jan 18 2010
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smokey: That would be impossible. Don't get me wrong, I hate social ranking, but he would be at the top, me at the bottom. It just doesn't go well.
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3:57pm Jan 18 2010
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zoey: hmm..then he's a jerk ]:< He probably thinks he's cool bullying you. I'm sry..I wish I could help, but I've never been in a situation like that before. What you shouldn't do tho, is talk back to him or get really emotional that would make you apear vulnerable and possible result in further damage and bullying. |
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8:06pm Jan 18 2010
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XS I'm the target for the racist people, and I've learned talking back isn't right... Last week, when I was talking to a friend, this random person I barely know comes up to me and was like "I remember you! Your mom had the funny voice and was screaming at you in some weird language." -______-;; I snapped back and said "I have no clue what you're talking about, I think you're hallucinating. 8D" But before I could really go that far, my friend pushed him into a wall. XD He was like "No, I know your mom- *slams into wall* has a fun- *slams into wall*ny voice and- *slams into wall* Ow." XD
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8:42pm Jan 18 2010
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Reeses: That's awful! i may have problems, but only one group at my school is racist, and they hide it well.
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8:44pm Jan 18 2010
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They're really open about it here. P: Last year, when my table was behind them, they were purposely laughing really loudly and making fun of my race. KNOWING I was listening, one of them elbowed their friends and was like "Dood. She's right behind you. ;o! Doh." They're just stupid though, so I guess I should try and ignore them, though it's hard not to. :s
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9:13pm Jan 18 2010
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Oh my gosh! Racist people tick me off. *makes fist into a ball and mutters something*
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